There is an old Polish aphorism — Nie mój cyrk. Nie moje małpy. — which I heartily recommend to you. It means, “not my circus; not my monkeys” and while it’s not a universal purgative, you may find the distance it affords beneficial to your mental health.
Repeat after me: nyeh moy sirk; nyeh moy-eh mau-pee.
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